All, Insecurities, Poems, School/Career

Dreams

You dream.
You dream of having the “perfect” body.
You dream of your eyeliner being even.
You dream of finding “Mr. Right”.
You dream of a face clear of acne,
Of being beautiful enough,
Of being funny enough,
Of being skinny enough.
Us girls?
We dream.
But these are all generalizations,
Of course.
Dreams fed on stereotypes.
Whether we all dream these kinds of things
Or not,
They’re just surface-level dreams.
Deep-down,
We dream
Different dreams;
We long for different things.
Deep down,
You dream of being
GREAT.
We dream of being doctors who treat cancer,
Of being the scientists who cure it.
We dream of being astronauts,
Police-women,
Firefighters,
Professional chefs,
Football players,
Engineers,
Surgeons!

So….
What stops us?
Why do we seem to dwell on the surface-level “dreams?
Why do you tell yourself that being GREAT
Is less possible than clear skin?

Who
Says
You
Can’t?

Who makes you out to be weak?
To be whiny?
To be shallow?

Who says that us girls
Dream only of having the “ideal” body?
So as to…
What?
Get a man?

Who says that our
Futures
Are built upon the ideals
Of men?

The things that society says are beautiful:
The high cheekbones,
Long hair,
Flat stomach,
Thigh gap,
Long eyelashes.
The lack of muscle on our
Arms and legs,
No meat on our bones.

Society believes we need these things
So a guy will find us
Attractive.
So we can have a family
And be a housewife.

Why can’t we define
OURSELVES?
Why can’t we base our lives off of
Ourselves?
Off our own ideals?

Why can’t our goals,
Our desires,
Our wishes
Be based on our own successes?

You’re living in a man’s world, honey.

We’re living in a man’s world
Where it’s more realistic
To dream of fitting a mold,
Where it’s more realistic to be
Ordinary.

They want you to be inferior.
They want you to be ordinary.

But you’re NOT.

You don’t have to be.

You go out there and
show them
That it’s
YOUR world,
That you are, in fact,
Extraordinary.

You go out and show them
That you’re MORE than mediocre.

You’re smart.

You’re driven.

And you have just what it takes
To make the world
Believe in
You
And your
Dreams.

Friendship, Insecurities, Poems

The Best Are Harder To Find

A box in the rain, on a field outside
Sat wet and gloomy in the bitter cold.
I saw this box, sitting there like it died
Years ago. So I opened it– Behold!
An oyster, so old and… a chunk of gold!
Tossed the shell aside and took the jewel
Everywhere I went. And the stone controlled
What I did, how I lived; I was its mule.
But I threw that pyrite straight at the wall,
And took out the old clam shell I had found.
In it was a beautiful pearl, so small;
It comforted me— healed, saved from that mound.
Toxicity’s out in packages bright,
While the best may be hidden out of sight.

with tm friends
Some of my best friends and I at TM camp
Chronic Illness, Disability, Insecurities, Poems, Transverse Myelitis

Pieces

01/28/2017– I always hated the last stanza of this poem. Kinda awkward. I finally changed it. Still not perfect, but a lot better, in my opinion. 🙂

I’m dedicating this poem to one of my best friends, Sarah Todd 🙂 She’s been through a lot the last (almost) 6 years of her life, but has found new passions to replace the holes left by the old things she can no longer do. ST has found a way to pick up the pieces and put herself back together; I admire that a lot!! ❤

 

Pieces, broken cov’ring the floor;
A trail of me lead to the door.
I couldn’t keep together, me;
When a wave hit— disparity.

Nobody knew, because my face
Was happy, smiling, full of grace.
But inside of me was a sea
Of anger, of sadness, not glee.

Was drowning in that water that
Consumed me; chased me like a cat
After a mouse. No one could see
The storm, the war inside of me.

So pieces, on the floor they lie;
Could leave them there to petrify.
Or I could pick them up, maybe,
And show the world I can be free.

Chronic Illness, Disability, Poems

Lost Childhood

As a young child,

Your biggest worries

Are the weather-

Will it rain today?-

And which annoying sibling

Stole your toy.

 

As a young teen,

Your biggest worries

Are clothes

And friends

And homework.

Other than that,

You have your life ahead of you.

 

What do you want to be when you grow up?

You get many more years

To think about that.

 

Who’s your best friend?

It may change soon, it may not.

Your answer might not be what it was a month ago.

But you have fun regardless,

Fun with the day’s BFF.

 

What will you wear for picture day?

Will it be a dress or a skirt,

Jeans or leggings?

In a year that will not matter;

You have your life ahead of you.

 

No problems as a young teen,

Young and in middle school,

Or as a little kid,

Playful and innocent,

Should last.

 

They’re temporary.

 

You’re young, you’re naïve.

 

You think it will last,

The care-free nature of childhood.

 

You feel old,

And yet you don’t truly need to worry.

 

You shouldn’t have to worry about

Adults in white coats

And stethoscopes,

 

Thin white sheets

On a button-filled bed,

 

Tests and tests and tests

To tell you what’s wrong.

 

Pills to make you feel better.

 

You shouldn’t have to worry about

Whether or not you’ll get better.

Whether or not your life will begin again,

Whether or not these fears will last

The rest of your life.

 

You don’t think they will last.

 

Why should they?

 

They never have before

 

But slowly you are forced to realize,

As a child,

That they’re not going to leave.

 

They’ll stay with you forever,

Unlike 6th grade picture day

Or a failed math quiz.

 

Unlike a lost toy,

Or wet clothes.

 

They’re forced to grow up,

Forced to mature beyond their time.

 

One day

We might find a cure,

A cure for illnesses

Affecting children.

 

One day

We might find cures,

And save the innocent, necessary childhood

Of many.

 

We can only hope.

And believe.

And pray.

And be aware.

Chronic Illness, Disability, Poems, Transverse Myelitis

Daily Battle

American Revolution.

Civil War.

World War I.

 

What do they have in common?

 

Pain.

Violence.

Suffering.

Fatigue.

Fear.

 

My war

Is not unlike those.

 

There are fights.

 

All day every day,

I battle.

 

I battle the enemy,

Hoping to win.

 

It lasts a long time.

 

I get no sleep;

I am always tired,

But the pain

Keeps me awake.

 

Strength is needed,

Strength to thrust the sword

Or hold up the gun.

 

Strength

To fight back.

 

Energy is drained.

 

Why so quickly?

 

Energy is drained,

And I wish I could take a break

To re-charge.

 

Can’t concentrate

On anything else.

 

I can’t leave the enemy

To fight me, defenseless.

It won’t win.

It can’t.

 

Every second spent distracted,

I am hit

And wounded.

 

Pain

Shoots through my body.

 

I am knocked down,

But I get back up.

 

Energy is drained

Some more.

 

I just want a break,

Just for one second.

 

The lights dim outside,

And it’s ready to sleep,

Ready to forget the battles.

 

But the enemy attacks

At my weakest point.

 

Why didn’t I see it?

 

I spend the night

Fighting some more.

 

And the cycle begins,

Everyday more exhausting

And painful

Than the last.

 

When the sun comes out,

When I see a moment of light,

When I knock them down for just barely long enough,

I see

What makes it all worth it.

I see

What I’m fighting for.

 

I fight

For my dignity.

 

For my family,

For my friends.

 

I fight,

To help others

Who battle as well.

 

I fight

For my pride,

 

For my God,

 

For my life.

 

And I am grateful

That I have reasons,

That life is not just an endless battle.

 

For the battle is inside of me,

And I cannot escape.

Insecurities, Poems

Unknown Future

I lie awake

When sleep won’t come

And think.

Think about life,

How this essay

And history test

And physics problems

Won’t matter a year from now.

 

When I think about the future

In this way,

It’s blissful.

It seems

So simple,

So much happier

And brighter.

 

The future is unknown, and

As long as it stays distant,

I can pretend

It’ll be perfect.

 

But I’m kidding myself.

For when I think of the pain,

When I remember that

It likely won’t leave,

My life

Seems long, and

The future looks bleak.

 

The future is unknown, and

When I think of it in this way,

That there will be many more

Arguments, more

Stubbed toes and hangnails,

Broken friendships

And betrayal;

More sorrow,

More grief,

More disappointment,

More pain,

 

It looks no different.

 

Life seems an endless battle,

Day after day after day

We all fight.

This will never change.

 

But I think about the good things.

 

There will be more hugs,

More kisses,

More birthday presents and

Wishes.

More sweet chocolate,

Sipping lemonade in the sun,

And heart-warming books.

More love,

More happiness,

More warmth,

More fun,

More LIFE.

 

And the future no longer looks bleak;

Life no longer seems too long.

 

I don’t dread what’s to come, because

The future is unknown

For a reason.

 

As I lie awake I think

About what I look forward to,

And smile as I drift to sleep,

 

And dream about the future.

Insecurities, Poems

Changed Views

I wake up
And look out the window.
The beautiful snow glistens and sparkles.
I am six years old, and unafraid.

I wake up
And look out the window.
The annoying snow is speckled and in the way.
I’m sixteen years old, and ignored.

I wake up
And look out the window.
The dirty snow is messy and a pile of slush.
I’m thirty-six years old, and overworked.

I wake up
And look out the window.
The lively snow glistens and sparkles.
I’m sixty-six years old, and unafraid.